Nigerian singer and producer Gabriel Oche Amanyi, popularly known as Terry G, has shared his thoughts on why many Nigerians feel trapped in cycles of failure. Speaking recently, the artist pointed to the lasting impact of negative words spoken by parents during childhood as a key reason behind low self-belief among many young people.
According to Terry G, some parents, often out of frustration or anger, make harmful declarations such as “you will never make it” or “nothing good will come out of you.” He explained that these words, though sometimes said carelessly, tend to stick in the minds of children. Over time, such statements can damage self-esteem and become limiting beliefs that follow them into adulthood.
He emphasized that words are powerful and can shape how children see themselves and their future. When a child repeatedly hears negative predictions about their life, they may begin to accept it as truth, making it harder to break free from feelings of inadequacy or hopelessness later on.
Terry G urged Nigerians to challenge and break this cycle of negativity by adopting more positive mindsets. He stressed the importance of self-awareness, encouraging people to recognize that their parents’ words do not define their destiny. Instead, individuals should choose to believe in their potential and build confidence in their abilities.
“Your future is not tied to negative declarations from your past,” Terry G noted. He called on parents, guardians, and mentors to be more intentional with their words, reminding them that encouragement and positive affirmations can empower children to aim higher and succeed.
For Terry G, overcoming these mental barriers is essential for personal growth and national progress. By cultivating positive thinking and rejecting limiting beliefs, Nigerians can unlock their full potential and create a culture of resilience, hope, and achievement.
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